This time of year can get a bit challenging for those who have many names on the gift list but a limited amount of money to spend. I came across a quote the other day that said: “I think as you grow older your Christmas list gets shorter, because the things you want can’t be bought.” I can certainly relate to that quote and I want to make that the theme of my column today.
A popular idea is to give to a charity that you like and make a donation in the name of a family member. We just celebrated “giving Tuesday” last week but that doesn’t mean you can’t still contribute. Instead of running around from store to store fighting crowds and traffic, there is something very calming about finding the right charity for the right person.
This is also a perfect time of year to teach your children about helping those less fortunate and “adopt another family” as a holiday gift. There are many great opportunities right here in our community to provide essential items like food, bedding, and clothing items. Several banks and social service agencies have programs in place that will connect you with a family. You will be amazed at the joy getting your kids involved in buying gifts for another child can bring.
One rewarding way to save money at this stressful time of year is to make the gift. Whether it is a recycled craft the kids helped you make or a freshly baked loaf of pumpkin bread delivered to neighbors or family members, it is truly the thought that counts. What can you bake? What can you make? You might find that whatever you give to others will be more special to them if they know you made it with your own two hands.
And finally, consider giving the gift of time this year. Perhaps it is difficult for someone to do minor home repairs or prepare a meal. You could design personalized coupons that can be redeemed for things that will be most appreciated. When the coupons are redeemed you will undoubtedly feel a closeness that no expensive gift could have matched.
This year let’s focus on the joy behind the holiday and choose practices that enhance the feeling rather than detract. Enjoy the month ahead!
Donna Krug is the Family & Consumer Science Agent with K-State Research & Extension – Barton County. You may reach her at: (620)793-1910 or dkrug@ksu.edu