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6 reasons why you need to take time for yourself
Alone time isnt valued much today, but we all need time to ourselves. Get started with these tips. - photo by Benjamin Greene
Older generations like to poke fun at millennials for how they stare at screens rather than have conversations face to face. But, ironically, much of that screen-staring time is spent connecting with other people. Millennials chat on social media apps and make plans over texts. Facebook (and Myspace before it) even counts the number of friends you have and pressures you to keep that friend-count high so you don't look like a loser.

But, in this hyper-connected internet age, its especially important to take time for yourself once in a while here are six reasons why:

1. Extended anxiety relief

Too many stimuli arent good for your mental health. When you spend all your time doing things and no time thinking about the things youve done, your brain gets overloaded with all these raw emotions and experiences, producing anxiety.

Alone time gives you the space you need to process everything thats happened to you, which, in turn, relieves anxiety.

Simplifying your life helps here as well. Maybe some of your priorities arent all that important. Harvard research shows we spend 47 percent of our waking hours thinking about something other than what were actually doing. This increases anxiety. Creating time for yourself can help you focus more fully on the present, reducing this anxiety.

2. Improved physical health

In addition to improving your mental health, alone time gives your physical health a little boost as well.

Everyone knows they need to exercise regularly to stay healthy but when youre always at work/school hanging out with friends/family, it can be hard to find the time to work out. Getting rid of these distractions for a while allows you to get stronger, increase your stamina and tack on a few more years to your life.

3. Maximized productivity

Again, social activities do have significant value, but theyre also distractions. Isolating yourself allows you to focus on work or school projects due soon. You can also use alone time to explore potential hobbies and develop new interests.

You will be more productive when you can concentrate better. Try removing some of your daily distractions like compulsively checking your email. Turn Facebook notifications off. You will get more done in less time, a huge factor in finding time for yourself.

4. Magnified gratitude

As John Lennon once famously wrote, Life is what happens to you while youre busy making other plans.

We spend so much time thinking of our long-term goals working toward that next promotion, finding ways to save up enough money to eventually buy a house, etc. that we forget about all the little things we have right now.

The smell of a bag of coffee freshly opened, the taste of that coffee after its brewed, the banal beauty of a sunny summer day ... these things are easy to miss when youve dedicated your thoughts to other matters.

Taking some time for yourself allows you to slow things down and focus on the present moment, allowing you to appreciate all the small details that make life rich.

5. Increased happiness

Downtime allows you to reflect on what is going on in your life, increasing your happiness.

Your morning can make or break your day. Try setting your alarm 30 minutes earlier each day and spend that time praying or doing yoga. This sets the tone for the rest of your day and increases your happiness and satisfaction of day-to-day life.

We often focus on getting everything done, which leaves us feeling stressed, depressed and exhausted. Also take time to read, watch a favorite TV show or do whatever other favorite activity fills your cup. The best way to do this is to schedule regular me time.

Spending time alone isn't selfish. Everyone needs time to themselves.

6. Strengthened focus

When all day we run at full speed like an ambulance driver, we lose touch with our surroundings. Its amazing how taking time for yourself provides more clarity. It will help you prioritize and give you an energy boost for your sometimes daunting schedule.

Remember, our perceptions are often flexible; they are a lump sum of our experiences. When you take a regular break, you can clear your mind and have a clearer perception of reality, becoming more focused.

At the end of the day, spend time in reflection. Celebrate the wins, the things you did accomplish instead of the tasks you didnt complete.

"We seem to have a complex about busyness in our culture. Most of us do have time in our days that we could devote to simple relaxation, but we convince ourselves that we don't." Thomas Moore