Are you an unsung hero? Do those you encounter not appreciate the “real” you? Must you always having the last word?Then you might be interested in the new trend spotted by USA Today: self-penned obituaries, also known as “selfie obits” or “autobituaries.”As someone who has been chronicling some semblance of his ups and downs and opinions over the past 16 years, I probably shouldn’t begrudge anyone else the opportunity to write their own final testament, but I feel obligated to point out the pitfalls.For one thing, the earlier in life you start the obituary, the more it’s just one more nagging thing to keep updated.